Shelby County Life Magazine : Shelby County, Kentucky

It's Okay: Living and Loving Through Cancer

By Toni Ethington Roberts

"Cancer is so prevalent today that if you don't already have cancer, you probably know of someone who does. We're all touched by this disease. That's why I was so convicted to write this book, because this is the book I needed when I was first diagnosed. It is so easy for your mind to be filled with anger and fear after receiving a diagnosis like terminal cancer. I needed spiritually uplifting books that gave me insight on how to live with cancer, how to be okay with the disease and most importantly, how to embrace this time as an opportunity from God. I hope this book offers you the encouragement you need and opens your eyes to God's working and miracles that hide within the darkest moments of your life." -- Toni E. Roberts

The author succumbed to cancer Feb. 9, 2009.

The book is available through iUniverse.com.

Feature 1

Boy Scouts celebrate 100 years

Being a Boy Scout was simply a part of Devin Hayes' growing up process. The Shelbyville youth has been a Scout for 10 of his 17 years. In late January, his perseverance paid off. During his Honors Court, Hayes was promoted to Eagle Scout -- the highest honor a Scout can earn.

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Feature 2

Bullet proof

It's a story as old as cops and robbers. A boy -- or in this case a young man -- watched in awe as the fire trucks and police cars roared by. He yearned to be one of them; he wanted to be part of the excitement. Did he ever get his wish.

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A Slice of Life

Are we desensitized to dirty words?

Dirty words aren't as dirty as they used to be. At the risk of sounding like my parents, I think that many young people -- and a number of not-so-young people -- don't have much respect for the English language. These purveyors of pornographic prose fling four-letter adjectives with velocity and disregard -- much like a 9-year-old in a snowball fight who doesn't care who gets an earful of his icy ammunition.

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Feature 3

Miracle child; miracle mom

Some phrases generally evoke strong emotions in a person. "You're pregnant!" can bring tears of joy. Then there's, "It's cancer." The tears are different. Now imagine hearing both of these with in just a few weeks of each other.

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Feature 4

Hargadon named Friend of Education

"Hello, Pat, Shelby County Public Schools needs ..." "Sure ..." That is always the response received when asking Pat Hargadon for assistance. As agency manager of Shelby County Farm Bureau Insurance and a 1979 graduate of Shelby County High School, Hargadon believes wholeheartedly in the Partner In Education program and in giving back to his hometown. The school system is, obviously, part of that hometown and he never hesitates contributing time or money.

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